There’s a pile of papers from several years that have been on my to-do list. I’m an information hoarder. I know it’s illogical – especially today when I can ask the internet pretty much anything and get back more good (and terrible) answers than I could ever want.

I learned that information represents safety. Knowledge is power, right? Only I filed that information away in filing cabinets and boxes. I would look at some of it once in a while, and remember why I kept that information, but most of it pertained to circumstances that never happened – like how to survive in the wilderness.

If I find myself in the wilderness, but haven’t read that damn article stored in my filing cabinet, it’s no better than not having it. I learned from various sources to stay in one place until someone finds me. Well that depends on if I’m in an area of regular traffic.

I know I can eat pine tree bark and needles, and to try to sleep off of the ground, and to try to make a lean-to, but I cannot protect myself in every scenario.

Not once have I ever been lost in the wilderness. I only go hiking with someone, and then only on known trails. I am not an adventurer.

But what if a plane crashes in the wilderness and I survive?

I guess I’d have to deal with that then. Honestly, I hope I don’t survive if that happens. I’ve never been good in a crisis, and I have enough PTSD as it is.

When my son was six-months-old, I was camping near the ocean with three friends and their children. Their girls were eight and nine. I asked them to watch my son, who was clipped into his child seat on the middle of the picnic table, while I went to the bathroom. They said yes, and as I walked away, I hear a loud noise and a thud.

I did that seemingly slow-motion turn around to see that the girls must have each thought the other would stay by the table and they were walking away in opposite directions while my son must have rocked forward and tumbled from the table.

A scream came out of my mouth that I did not know I was capable of making, and I shit you not, at least three mothers from other campsites came running into our site while I stood there frozen in horror, believing my son dead.

They scooped him up, and what I thought was blood turned out to be dirt and nettles. They cleaned him off as I regained the ability to function.

It’s rattling me again as I write this.

I was so relieved, and then ashamed that I froze. I am also forever grateful to those women who jumped into action.

I’m recycling reams of information that is good to know, but useless if it’s not in your head at the moment you need it – and you’re able to act on it.

I suppose I shouldn’t feel too bad because earlier that year, my son was choking, and I pulled him out of his high chair, tipped him upside down and thumped his back – and out came the food.

I don’t know why I froze at the campsite, but I’m glad I was never tested again in a seeming crisis.

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